Sunday, October 29, 2023

COMING SOON ~ "Evening Reflections: Resting in the Treasures of God's Word" a 30-day devotional

 It's finally happening. "It" is my book. I finished the words that God gave me, put it away, rewrote it, put it away again, and repeated until I knew it was ready. This is my first nonfiction book-length endeavor. It is God-given and it's a testimony about how to rest well. Are you weary and find it hard to sleep at night? I found the answer to my insomnia! It's simple, but I must tell you that I had to intentionally focus and practice. And as time went by, I developed my routine to:

 Reflect. Renew. Rest. 


The secret is revealed in the book, but I'll tell you that the treasure is the wonderful words found in the Bible. Those words are worth more than gold and silver because they assure us that we are Children of God.

 This book took me on a journey from not sleeping well at night and despair tearing at my heart, to a direct and deliberate routine that brought me sweet rest. I hope you will consider giving my method a try and that you discover sweet slumber every night by reflecting on your day, renewing yourself with God, and resting peacefully. 

Watch for it to debut, maybe by Christmas, 2023. 

Thursday, October 26, 2023

Book Review ~ Her Christmas Healing by Mindy Obenhaus

 Coming in November, Mindy Obenhaus’ latest book, “Her Christmas Healing” is number four in the series. The story revisits Hope Crossing, Texas, and includes all the favorite characters from her other Hope Crossing books. Fans of second-chance love, K-9 Companions, and sweet little Grandmothers will find this story tugging on their heartstrings. Jillian McKenna makes a major decision after she is assaulted, and her life will change forever. When she returns to her grandmother’s hometown, can her past boyfriend Gabriel Vaughn help her overcome her troubles? She is gifted Aggie, a Companion dog trained to comfort people with PTSD, etc. Gabriel has trouble of his own and must decide what to do when his life’s work is threatened. Will God intervene to steer them to their destiny? There’s a surprise near the end of the story. Preorder now and when you do, check out Mindy's other books. She's an expert at writing stories with real-life characters dealing with real-life problems and finding love in the mix. Disclaimer: I received a review copy from the author, and I’m not compensated for my honest review.


 

Tuesday, October 24, 2023

God's Good Gift ~ A Devotional

The Bible tells us that everything we have are gifts from God.  James 1:17 says, “Every good and perfect gift comes from above.” (NKJV)  Everything comes from the Lord, our health, our financial status, our family, possessions, everything. In fact, every day is a gift because our lives are measured in days and the clock ticks each day off as we get closer to the time we will surely die.

 In the New Testament, we are introduced to Job who is an honest man of God, an innocent man who tried to stay away from evil.  Job was wealthy and happy with his large family. But suddenly he was tested by the devil who reigned death and despair over him in hopes that Job would curse God.  

 As Job sat in an ash pile crying out in his despair, woeful and distressed, friends questioned him relentlessly about his suffering and pain.  They urged him to curse God and die.  Job answered that while he suffered horribly and did not know why he was being treated that way, he also praised the goodness of the Lord. 

 Job did eventually lose his family and everything he had but still he remained faithful to God.  In Job 1:21 it says, “And he said: “The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” (NKJV)

 Job’s story is interesting and it is a favorite among many. The takeaway from his story is that we can own everything we want or need, but we can lose it all, too. God is goodness, truth, and light. But sometimes we can lose everything we have because of one poor action or decision and sometimes it’s not us who has done a bad act, but a family member against us.

 Chapter 23:10-11, Job answers, “But He knows the way that I take; When He has tested me, I shall come forth as gold. My foot has held fast to His steps; I have kept His way and not turned aside.” (NKJV) In the end, Job was given a new family and more than he had before.

 This story is a good one for us to read and compare with our own life. Has God gifted you with financial stability, a beautiful family, countless friends and a life to be delighted with?  If we are blessed with God’s gifts of family we want to take care to not squander our days.

 Sometimes families fuss, fight, accuse, and ignore each other, never calling or visiting until it is too late. We use excuses that we are busy with a job and children, but the truth is we are selfish and caught up in the “me” attitude. We take advantage of God’s gifts to us until the day comes and someone dies.

 Our commandment is to love God and others. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 states, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” (NIV)

Our gifts are given to us with the intention for us to be grateful, thankful, and content with one another.  Life is short.  Take care of your gifts and thank God for your family.  Sometimes we lose our people through accidents, illness, or unexplained reasons.  Reach out now to your gifts: your parents, your brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles, children, grandchildren, and those friends you enjoy spending time with. And tell them, “I love you.”

 Psalm 127:3 says, “Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from Him.” (NLT)  And Luke reminds readers that “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (NKJV).

 Just as Job lost everything he had been given, we too may lose our gifts. But unlike Job, we may not be as fortunate to get those things or people back! Let’s glorify God by making that phone call or text to those we love, write a letter, or go visit your family (who are your gifts) today. Because all God’s gifts are good! The holidays are coming, spend quality time with those you love, they will LOVE that gift! 

 

 

Shop 'Till You Drop, ~ A Devotional

                                             SHOP 'TILL YOU DROP A Devotional 

 “Thou shalt have no other gods before me.” Exodus 20:3 (KJV)

It was Friday and payday!  I left work and drove to the nearest big box store, grabbed a cart, and away I went with my list.  I always checked my favorite sections of the store first to find any new items.

 It was a week before Christmas and the store was alive with festive decorations of the season, music flowing from the speakers, and glittering gorgeous merchandise filling each department.  I pushed the cart, humming to myself as my eyes eagerly found shiny décor and Santa ornaments that I added to my cart.

 Later, as I stood in the checkout line, my hungry eyes moved over the full cart.  Playing the guessing game, I tried to guess how much the purchases would add up to.  I felt a tug of guilt, but quickly dismissed it as I swiped my debit card to pay for all of it.

 When I arrived home, my husband helped me bring in sack after sack.  I was quick to grab those bags that held the stuff that had tempted me.  Hopefully, he would not notice when those new ornaments were hanging on our Christmas tree or placed strategically throughout the house. 

Each room in our house looked like a craft show, filled with stuff.  Collections were found all over the house: Santas, snowmen, holiday décor, big things, little things, and everything in between.

 Yes, shopping was definitely my thing.  As I prepared supper, I boasted to myself that I was the Queen of shopping and I wore that crown proudly!  I loved collecting everything that caught my eye.  Buying and collecting stuff satisfied me. 

 When I read my daily devotional the next day, it told the story about the Philistines and the Ark of God.  They carried the pagan fish-god Dagon into the temple and placed it beside the Ark of the Covenant.  The next morning the people of Ashdod found the Dagon god had fallen on its face to the floor in front of the ark of God.  They set Dagon upright again next to the Ark.  But the next morning, they found the god again had fallen to the floor, but this time the head and palms of the hands were broken off and lay on the doorstep.  Only Dagon’s torso was left intact.

God dealt mightily with the people and the Ark of the God of Israel was eventually returned to its rightful place.  Samuel spoke to the Israelites telling them to serve only one true god, the God of Abraham.

 The question from the devotional asked readers if they served gods other than our Heavenly Father.  Gods, as in little carved statues made out of wood, marble, plastic or cloth?  Nope, no gods in my house!  Or was there? 

  I pondered that question and I was led to the Ten Commandments found in the Book of Exodus.  The third commandment says, “You shall have no other gods before me.” 

 I looked around the living room and saw the gods I proudly displayed.  My house was full of all the things I had spent money on.  I was ashamed of myself.  Material things, all of it. 

I remembered the verse in Matthew 6:19, “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal.”   And a few verses on down where Jesus tells us, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all of these things shall be added to you. Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”

 I studied these verses for some time and took a real look at myself.  The Lord showed me that I had an addiction.  The addiction of spending money on frivolous material possessions.  And those possessions were my gods.  I had taken on a bad habit that got out of control.

While collecting things is not a sin, spending money frivolously on those little gods is.  Once I saw my sin of exorbitant spending, I dug deeper and discovered that the root cause was due to problems in my life.  When a problem sprung up, instead of dealing with it and solving it, shopping was my escape.

 Today I am happy to say that I have kicked the habit of spending money needlessly.  I have healed from the addiction to stuff and the compulsive behavior.  I shop sensibly and intentionally. 

 I have learned that it’s nice to have a beautiful home, but do not allow things to become pagan gods.  Serve the one true God of all things holy.

 Let us pray.  Father God, help me be sensible when it comes to spending money and not wasting it on frivolous material things that may become a pagan god in my life. Help me keep my eyes on you and follow Jesus.  In Jesus’ Name, Amen

 SCRIPTURES FOR TOAY 

Matthew 6:19, “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and thieves break in and steal.” (NKJV) Matthew 6:33, But seek ye first the kingdom of God and His Righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you.” (NKJV)

 REFLECT AND RESPOND

Are you addicted to compulsive buying?  Do you absently collect items just because you love them?  Do you have other bad habits that take the place of honoring God?  Ask Father God to show you so that you can repent and take charge of those bad habits before they ruin your life.

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Rocky Corners, Missouri A Fictional Smalltown in the Ozarks

MR DECKER’S SECRET

            “Nick, I don’t want to walk past old Mr. Decker’s house! It’s spooky! Let’s go back,” Amy Johnson pleaded with her older brother. On the verge of tears, guilt over leaving the house without permission left a lump in her stomach.

            “Don’t be a ‘fraidy cat! The pine trees are up ahead.” Nick deflated his sister’s request.   

            Amy made a sour face. “I don’t want to go on.” Her eyes were round like moons as she looked about her, the thick grove of trees blocking the sunlight. The overcast sky added to the eeriness of where they stood. Folks called it Shadow Lane.

            Nick gave his sister a hard look. “Stop wasting time! We’ve got to get back before Granny misses us!”

            Amy gulped, rolling her eyes. Taking a breath, she said, “We should’ve gone over on Granny’s half acre.”

            “The pinecones I want are over here. Mom wants them. Decker’s not going to hurt you. He’s not home most of the time.”

            Leftover dark clouds hung in the sky like billowing black cotton balls. The wind blew enough to ruffle their hair, sending leaves fluttering haphazardly to the ground. The morning rain left puddles dotting the ground. Rain was still a threat on this November morning.

Earlier, the children left their grandmother’s house to gather pinecones, colored leaves, vines, and other natural vegetation for their mother’s crafts. She used the raw materials to create beautiful items to sell at the area craft shows.

The pair loved to “walk around the block” with their grandmother. While they walked, she told stories about the bygone days while they looked for new discoveries, greeted their neighbors, and enjoyed the outdoors and nature.  

Shadow Lane was nothing more than an old wagon path, a dirt lane, leftover from earlier days. Grandmother told the story that for some reason it was never graveled, never developed, like all the other streets in Rocky Corners. It was a deserted place, used only by the occupants of the two houses built there.            

            Elias Decker was a short chubby, little man who lived in a run-down house on Shadow Lane. He always wore a brown shabby suit and wore black scuffed shoes. Untidy dark hair topped his head. When he grinned, he was missing some of his teeth.

            The children thought Decker was a bum and were frightened of him. They wondered why he walked around town, never driving a vehicle. They were sure he had a secret. His mysterious appearance led the children to invent wild stories about the old man to their friends.

            Decker kept to himself. Occasionally he was seen walking to town. Sometimes a big black car would stop in front of his house, pick him up, and drive away.  

            Decker’s house was small. Paint curled on the clapboard siding. Dirty lace curtains framed the windows. The front screen door sagged on its hinges. The yard was overgrown with weeds and brush. Grass grew between the bricks of the front walk.

            Thunder rumbled its warning in the distance. The sky darkened.

            The children hurried to the grove of pine trees. It was close to Decker’s house. There were fat pinecones, laying in heaps, and littering the ground.

            The wind picked up and whistled through the trees, erupting a piney scent. Amy opened the bag and shoved the cones inside.

            “I told you these were huge!” Nick laughed, as he gathered his share.

            Minutes later, Amy looked around and saw Nick was gone. “Nick?” She was alone in the pine grove.            

            She could not see the sky but knew the storm was approaching fast. Where was he? Suddenly, a bird flew out of a tree and moving skyward. Drawing in a breath, an icy shiver ran up her arms. Just as she was about to cry out, she heard him.  

            “Amy!”

            She saw him a distance away climbing a tree. “I found some vines for Mom. Look!”

            Amy left the sack and crossed over a small mound of dirt, to find Nick in a tall maple tree, sitting on a big limb. Thick, rough vines wrapped around the tree trunk and snaked up onto the branches.

            “Grapevines,” Nick announced. “Just what Mom needs.”

            He cut a vine with his Scout knife. “As I throw them down, gather them up.”  

            “There’s a big one just a little way from you.” She pointed.

            Nick inched over the tree limb. “I don’t know if I can reach it.”

            Fat raindrops fell from the sky. The wind began to blow harder, and a light shower began.

            “Be careful, the limb is bending!” Amy shouted.

            Nick reached out, grabbed the grapevines. “Got ‘em!” He cut through the tough vines. But the branch could not bear Nick’s weight and crashed to the ground. He lay on his side, the vines tangled in his hands. His knife lay dangerously near his right leg.

            Amy screamed. “Nicky, are you hurt?” She fell to her knees beside him.

            “My arm hurts.” he whispered. He closed his eyes.

            Hot tears burned and slipped down her cheeks. They needed help, but she didn’t want to leave him alone. “Can you get up? I can help you…”

            His eyes opened and he swallowed. “No, my head hurts.”

            “I don’t think you should move,” Amy told him, remembering the first aid classes she learned at school.

            She swiped at the tears, brushing them across her already wet face. She had to be brave. Crying would not solve their problem.

            The rain grew heavier. She tried to shield her brother’s face as best she could. She had to go for help. She gulped and in the next moment, she ran toward Shadow Lane.  

            When she reached the rise, she stopped. A man wearing a dark brown suit stood before her. He held her bag of pinecones. Drawing a quick breath, she shouted, “Mr. Decker!”

            “Amy Johnson! What in the world are you doing out here?” But the wind and rain muffled his words. He smiled at her; she saw the gaps where his teeth were missing. Rain dripped off his black felt hat.

            Amy shivered. Cold and fear slid down her back and pooled at her feet. She wanted to run, but she couldn’t. Would Mr. Decker help them? Or kidnap them? She envisioned a horrible scene.

            “My brother fell from a tree, and he thinks his arm is broken!”

            “Where is he?” A frown lined Decker’s dark face.  

            Lighting lit the sky and thunder boomed. The storm was not letting up any time soon.

            Amy pointed to the place where Nick lay. “Over there by the fence.”

            Decker dropped the bag, brushing past her. He motioned for her to follow, but she ran around him toward her brother.  

            Kneeling, Mr. Decker spoke kindly to Nick. When Nick responded, he picked him up. “Follow me, we need to get into the house quickly.”

            Amy’s mouth dropped open and her brown eyes bugged out with surprise. “Your house?” She started to protest, but the man was moving fast.

            She wanted to refuse. To run for Granny’s house. But she had to follow or be left behind.  

            Reaching Decker’s house, they waded through knee-high weeds and grass to get to the front door. Rain rushed over the eaves, splashing to the overgrown flower beds below. Decker looked at Amy. “Reach into my coat pocket and get the key to unlock the door.”

            She did as he told her. Decker thanked her, then disappeared into the darkness of the living room.

            She stood in the rain, thinking about her options. Their parents had warned them not to go into stranger’s homes. She wanted to run for help, but she heard Decker calling her name. She stood in the doorway peering inside. A soft glow from a lamp spilled out into the dark room.

            Suddenly Decker stood at the door. “Amy, come and call your grandmother.”

            She looked at him. He had taken off his hat and his thinning dark hair was plastered to his head. It reminded her of Grandpa Johnson. It softened her heart a bit. Mr. Decker smiled at her.

            He looked kind. Should she run for help or enter this strange man’s house? A man who harbored a secret.

            Another crack of lightning split the sky and the wind thrashed about the house.

            Mr. Decker’s smile broadened; his voice grew soft. “I think I know what you’re thinking. You don’t know if you can trust me.” He nodded. “You’re a wise girl to take precautions. But you can trust me. I’ve known your Grandma Johnson for years. Do you want me to call her for you?” He brought out a cell phone from his pants pocket.

            She heard Nick calling her name, so she crossed into the living room. The house smelled funny, like it was old. She looked around, it was clean. The furniture was old, but functional. Fat throw pillows were of the same material as Grandma’s bedspread.

            Nick watched her make the call. When she hung up, she sat beside her brother. “How are you feeling?”

            “My arm’s sore.” His voice was meek, not loud as usual. “And my head hurts.”

            Mr. Decker appeared carrying a tray with three mugs and ice cubes in a baggie. Towels hung over his arm. Placing the tray on a nearby table, he offered the children a mug. Steam and the smell of cocoa curled from within. He handed them a towel, then sat in an armchair. The seat was coming apart and one of the chair arms wiggled with his weight.

            “Did you reach someone?” He wiped his face with a towel, then sipped from his mug.

            “Yes, Granny’s coming.” Amy answered. She eyed the dark liquid in the cups.

            “I thought hot cocoa might help warm you up while you wait.”

            “Thank you, Mr. Decker.” Nick sipped from the cup. “It tastes good.”

            Amy looked again at the cup she was holding. Steam curled a bit from the hot liquid. The smell made her want to take a drink. But still she hesitated. She watched Nick drink his.

            Nick knew she was frightened. He caught her gaze, then nodded permission.

            “I don’t have an ice pack, but this baggie should do the trick.” Decker handed it to Nick. “Place it on your arm, it’ll help with the swelling. My brother was a doctor. I learned a lot of medical things from him.” He grinned.

            Amy sipped from her mug, then looked around the room. The rushing storm whipped at the house; the wind tore at the windows. The dimness of the room made her think of all the scary stories everyone told about old Mr. Decker.   

            Peeling wallpaper sagged in places on the living room walls. The dingy faded lace curtains needed washed like Granny did from time to time. Her eyes brightened when she spied the tall, magnificent grandfather clock standing in the corner of the room. It had long ago stopped working and would never announce the time of day or night again. But it was grand!

            A wood-framed picture of a man and a woman set on the table next to the clock. She thought the lady beside him was quite beautiful with long golden curls bunched on her shoulders. The lady wore a jeweled comb in her curls and a red smile covered her lips.

            “That’s a picture of my wife and me. Isn’t she lovely?”
            “Yes and I love her hair comb,” Amy answered.

            “I didn’t know you were married,” Nick said. He was surprised because Granny had never talked much about Mr. Decker except that he wouldn’t hurt a flea.

            “Yes, I am.” The man’s voice broke, and he sniffed. Placing the cup to his lips, he took a deep drink. “Her name is Katherine.”

            “Is she home?” Nick asked.  

            “No,” Decker said, shaking his head, his voice just above a whisper. “She doesn’t live here anymore.”

            “Oh, you’re divorced.”

            Mr. Decker frowned. “No, we’re not divorced. A long time ago Katharine and I were travelling to Massachusetts. She’s from Boston. We were going to spend the holidays with her parents. But we didn’t make it.”

            The children gasped, looking at one another. Amy’s dark eyes widened as she asked what happened.

            “We had an auto accident. Katharine almost died. She spent months in the hospital. My brother, the doctor, helped with her case. But when she got well enough to leave the hospital, we knew she couldn’t come back home.”

            Nick and Amy listened to the story.  

            “She was severely burned, and broken bones handicapped her. A wheelchair was her mode of transportation. The hospital bill took all our savings. I was not able to give her the special care she needed, because I was hurt, too. It took me a year to recover and by then Katharine lived at the Fairview Christian Home. She has the nurses’ attention day and night.”

            His sorrowful words fell upon the two children. Nick’s face grew warm. He remembered how he and his friends gossiped about Decker and thought he was a lazy bum.

            Nick looked at his sister. Tears wet her eyes.

            “I visit her as much as I can. My sister comes to pick me up when I do,” Decker went on. “That’s why this place is so worn down. I don’t have time or the money to spend on it. Katharine is much more important. Would you like to see another photo of her?”

            Both children answered at the same time. “Yes!”

            He pulled a gold watch from his shirt pocket. Flipping it open, he handed it first to Amy. She gazed at the small round photo encased in the worn watch. She swallowed, saying nothing, then handed it to Nick.

            Nick drew a quick breath when he saw Mrs. Decker. Her thin face was scarred with white and pink flesh. Her wispy white hair hung over her shoulder in a braid. Sadness covered her face. Her eyes looked normal, but her nose was deformed as was her lips. They pulled high on one side. She could not smile.

            “During her hospital stay I prayed day and night that I might accept what all happened to her and not be angry. I felt if God allowed her to live, then there was a reason. Even though people are repulsed by her, I cherish her even more.”

            “Are you a Christian?” The words tumbled from Amy. She thought if he prayed to God, then perhaps he was.

            “Amy!” Nick exclaimed. “Shush!”

            Decker nodded. “We used to attend church at Peach Hill. Katharine played the piano, and it sounded like heaven.”

            He went one. “I know people think I’m strange. I’ve let this place go. I look like a bum. But my railroad pension only goes so far. I sold my automobile to help pay hospital bills. I guess you could call me a hermit.” A choked sound left his lips

            Guilt crawled over Amy. Now she and Nick knew the truth about the old man. She understood the “secret” surrounding this house. The black car that came often for him was his sister. He went to visit his sick wife in a town far away. His wife was more important than things.

            A warm glow spread through her, and a plan started to form. She looked at Mr. Decker. Instead of a ragged old bum who frightened the children in the neighborhood, she saw a poor man who proudly sacrificed everything to care for his wife.

            They heard a car and saw Granny pulling into the drive. The wind and rain had stopped, and the darker clouds cleared away, leaving a foggy sky behind.

            Decker moved to the door.

            “Mr. Decker, I’d like to invite you to our church,” Amy said. “It’s the one on Partridge Street.”

            “Yes, do come to church with us!” Nick sat up, put the bag of ice on the table. “I mow lawns. I’ll bring my lawn mower over and get the yard cleaned up for you, if you don’t mind.”

            Decker smiled. “Yes, I’ll pay you next month when my check arrives.”

            A knock sounded on the door. Decker opened it. “Hello, Olive! The children are safe inside.”

            “Granny!” Amy cried, running to the old woman.   

            “Hello, Elias!” She looked at the children. “What has happened?”

            Nick ducked his head. “I fell out of a tree.”

            “But we were getting all kinds of natural things for Mom to use for her crafts!” Amy cried out. “Please don’t be mad at us!”

            She remembered Mr. Decker. The man who had won her heart on this blustery stormy day. “And Mr. Decker saved us! And he gave us hot cocoa to warm us up!”

            Olive Johnson smiled. “Well then, I suppose we should leave him to the rest of his day and get you to the doctor. Thank you, Elias!”

            Nick stood up. “Mr. Decker, thanks for helping us and for telling us the story of your life. I’ll come and mow before it gets too cold.”

            Amy clapped her hands. “And I’ll come help you pick up the sticks in the yard! And remember you said you’d come to church!”

            Olive Johnson’s eyes sparked. “How nice! Yes, anytime you want to ride, someone will come for you.”

            “Thanks, Olive. Now, children, listen to me,” Decker said, putting his finger in the air. “When you go outside, be aware of what is happening around you. Not every day is safe, nor places you might want to go, either.”

            “Thanks, Mr. Decker!” Nick said. He moved to the old man’s side, giving him a hug.       

            Amy did the same thing. “Mr. Decker you’re my hero!”

            “I’ll second that!” Nick added, smiling.

                                                                 ###

            Later that evening, Nick and Amy’s mother called Decker. “Mr. Decker, this is Emma Johnson. The men from church want to help work on your house. I work at the Senior Center, and we want to add you to our list of those getting food baskets and meals served to your door. Would you be interested? We do not want to interfere in your business, we want to help.”

            Decker accepted the help and the conversation ended.  

            Amy and Nick listened to the exchange.  

            “Nick, Mr. Decker is not scary anymore. I feel bad because we called him names. We didn’t even know him. I learned a lesson!”

            “Me too. And you know what? I’m glad I fell out of the tree.” Nick looked at his arm wrapped in a sling. “Because now we know who Mr. Decker really is.”

            Amy’s blue eyes grew round. “Mr. Decker’s secret isn’t a secret anymore!” 

 

Thursday, October 12, 2023

Missouri Mules

 

 MISSOURI MULES! 

The good old Missouri Mule! I ran across photos of one of my distant cousins, Sam Utter, and his mule. Sam was born and raised in McDonald County Missouri and he and his family were farmers all their life. Sam raised and sold vegetables from the garden, fruit from the orchards, cattle, hogs, and hay. And mules. His farmland is still in the family today along with his son’s house just west where their property adjoins. 


Sam’s granddaughter, Shirley Utter Grout, lives in Kansas City and she and I have visited many times when she enjoyed summer visits to stay at the farm.

Sam loved and raised mules. He was well known from miles away for his breeding strong stock. 

Here’s a photo of Sam and one of his dearest mules, known as “Jack” 

Mules are known for their hardy stature, and they were used by the military as pack animals in combat. In the 1980s mules were used to carry weapons and supplies through Afghanistan’s rugged hills to Afghan mujahedeen camps. 

At the 1904 World’s Fair in St. Louis the prestigious term “Missouri Mules” was created when locally bred animals took the competition in the six-mule team wagon team. They quickly became popular with the history of the state. Missouri was a rural community known as the “Gateway to the West.” People traveling the westward trails often used mules to pull their covered wagons. 

Over the years Missouri mule breeders developed large draft animals that were sought after. Farmers needed sturdy, industrious mules to help them farm the land. When tractors replaced the working mules in the 1940s, now today mules aren’t used nearly as much as they once were. 

Governor Mel Carnahan signed the bill that designated the Missouri Mule as the official state animal. Today mules are distinguished between saddle and draft mules and are best known by their mother. 

While I researched mules, I ran across the information about SPANA, which stands for the Society for the Protection of Animals Abroad and was established in 1923. Katie Hosali and her daughter, Nina, were touring North Africa and area communities. They saw mules, camels, and donkeys being used as pack animals, but they were not being taken care of. The animals were suffering. They stayed and educated the villagers on caring for pack animals and giving veterinary services to the animals. Read more about SPANA: 

SPANA | The Charity For The Working Animals Of The World

Missouri State Animal | Missouri Mule (statesymbolsusa.org)

Rural Heritage magazine promotes living off the land and their ad says: “Borrowing from yesterday to do the work of today. Offering resources to promote self-sufficiency and back-to-land living.” Here’s a picture of the bi-monthly magazine on their website. 

A bit more about Sam Utter and his family. His son, Claude Utter, lived and worked on his farm, too. In 1925, he bought a new Model T Ford. On one of our visits to Shirley, Claude’s daughter, my brother Bill and I saw the car. It was covered and stored in the garage. Shirley had sold it and the man hadn’t come to pick it up yet. It was beautiful and in excellent condition! We oohed and awed over it! We didn’t think to take pictures of it. 

While tinkering around on the farm, Claude built a “machine” from spare parts he had on the farm. It came to be known as the “Longview Roadster.” The photo of it is now enlarged and hanging in the McDonald County Courthouse Museum in remembrance. I encourage you to further read about mules. Very interesting information, indeed! 








 







 





















 






Sunday, October 1, 2023

October is Family History Month

 


Autumn is here and October is Family History Month! Today you no longer have to drive across the country scouring courthouses and other institutions to dig through musty old records. The internet is alive with genealogy websites to help you find your family roots.

 Historical and genealogy societies, museums, and libraries offer structured help for genealogists searching for their family stories. Visit your local societies as they may offer county history books for sale that may help you find where your people lived. Libraries and bookstores offer great genealogy books and magazines to help you.

 All you need to do is jump into the big genealogy pool to get started. It’s easy to set up your family tree with genealogy software or popular websites dedicated to the subject. And search for people to help you get started researching or if you have met a brick wall in your research, find someone who may be able to guide you to helpful information.

 So much is going on with school back in session with fall sports, autumn activities and festivals, and the ushering-in of the holidays. Fall is the perfect time to grab your camera and get those pictures of your family living life. Take advantage of walking and go to fall festivals and snap beautiful photos of autumn fruit, veggies and decorations. Many festivals offer historical programs that provide scenarios for pioneer days and Civil War era reenactments. Enjoy the sights, sounds, smells, and people dressed in period costumes in a beautiful fall setting.   

Get outdoors and snap colorful photos of your family that will be treasured for years. Remember to label your snapshots with complete information that identifies who, what, when and where and sometimes how and why.

 With the blazing colors of autumn right around the corner, remember those harvest gatherings, elementary school parties, hayrides, the cute scarecrows, fall garden splendor, and pumpkin patch outings. October is a good month to start researching your family history or continue with what you’ve already accomplished. What a fun time to be outdoors. Capture your family history this fall. Happy October!