Tuesday, December 9, 2025

The Christmas Promise: A True Story

The Christmas Promise  

December 9, 1971                             

Karen Utter had never strapped on a pair of roller skates in her life, yet here she was, inching along the roller rink’s railing on the wall. Inside Skateland, scents of popcorn, people, and sugary cotton candy mingled with the sharp tang of the icy December night that seeped in every time the door swung open. The other girls zipped by her, their laughter and shouts blending with the popular song, Take It Easy sung by The Eagles as it blared from the overhead speakers, making the wooden floor beneath them rumble. Strobe lights cast sparkling orbs over the walls and ceiling, creating a mesmerizing, kaleidoscopic effect.

The rink was festooned with faux evergreen wreaths adorned with bright red bows, and mini-Christmas trees twinkled from every corner. Karen's breath came in fast, nervous puffs as she struggled to stay upright, her knuckles white from gripping the railing.

She was here for Shirley Sims' sixteenth birthday party. Shirley's friends glided effortlessly across the rink, their movements fluid and graceful, while Karen felt like a baby deer on ice. But determination burned in her brown eyes; she was resolved to enjoy the night without breaking a bone.

Suddenly, Shirley skated up to Karen, her face flushed and eyes sparkling. "Karen, follow me. There’s someone I want you to meet!" she called breathlessly before zipping off towards the benches.

"Um, give me a minute!" Karen called after her, creeping along the railing. She finally reached Shirley, who stood next to a blonde-haired young man. His eyes were bright blue, and his smile was warm and inviting.

"Here, let me help you," he said, extending his hand. His grip was firm and reassuring as he guided Karen to the bench. She flailed and stumbled but managed to reach the safety of the seat.

Fumbling with the skates, Karen pulled at the laces and slipped them off, feeling the cold, rough surface of the floor under her feet. "Whew! That was close, but I managed not to fall!" Pride laced her voice.

Shirley grinned and gestured to the young man. "Karen, this is Steve Jennings. We’ve known each other for a long time. He wanted to meet you!"

Karen looked up into Steve’s face, noticing how his hair swooped down over his forehead, reminding her of Hermey, the elf from Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. His smile caught her by surprise as he bent down and brushed her cheek with his lips. "Hello, Karen, sweetheart."

Her face warmed, her heart bouncing. No one had ever greeted her like that; most boys at school were far less charming.

Shirley explained, "Steve’s on leave from the Air Force. He just came inside to see who all was here. And here we are!" Shirley laughed and skated away to join the other girls on the floor.

"I just got into town yesterday," Steve said, his voice easy and smooth. "My brother and cousin wanted to cruise around the square, then we decided to come here. Are you from Neosho?"

"No, I’m from Granby," Karen replied, tying her sneakers tight, embarrassment creeping into her voice. She glanced at Steve’s military green fatigue jacket. "Are you from Neosho?"

"Born and raised here," Steve replied. "Hey, are you still in school, or are you on Christmas break?"

"Two days left before break."

"I’ll pick you up after school tomorrow, okay?" Steve’s smile was dazzling, his voice hopeful.

"Groovy, I won’t have to ride the bus!" Karen beamed.

Steve waited for Karen in the bustling high school lobby the next day. Teenagers spilled into the hallways, scurrying around with Christmas break on their minds. Freshly baked sugar cookies from the Home Ec class mingled with the musty smell of lockers, No. 2 yellow pencils, and textbooks. Karen spotted Steve waving to catch her attention amidst the chaos. "Hi, Steve! You found me in this sea of bodies!"

"My eyes will find you wherever you are, Karen. Here, let me take that for you." He eased the flower-power cloth book bag off her shoulder and led her outside to a gold 1966 Ford Mustang. The door groaned as he opened it, and she slid onto the cold vinyl seat.

"Do you want to cruise the square in Neosho before you go home?" he asked, turning the car onto the highway. Tommy James and the Shondells' Crystal Blue Persuasion song flowed from the eight-track player. 

Karen bit her lower lip, torn between her desire to spend time with Steve and her responsibility to her family. "I’m sorry, but I need to get home. My brothers will be alone, and Mom expects me to have supper ready."

Steve nodded in understanding. He took her home, but he picked her up from high school the next day, and they made plans to go out on Friday night. When Friday came, they cruised the square several times before heading to Joplin, where they bowled a few games. The bowling alley’s din of crashing pins and cheers echoed around them, mingling with the smell of waxed floors and the taste of greasy fries they shared.

After bowling, they walked two blocks on Joplin's Main Street to a downtown park lit with thousands of twinkling lights. A vintage blow mold set of holiday choir singers stood near the water fountain, now shut off for winter. Some of the paint was peeling off the faces of the plastic singers, but Karen loved the old set anyway. Sparkling golden lights bathed the evergreen trees, and lighted displays lined the sidewalks. The place was magical.

As they walked hand in hand amid the sparkling lights, Steve told her about his time in the military and that he was going to Iceland in the spring. He came from a big family—ten brothers and sisters—who lived on a farm outside Neosho. Karen shared her story, the eldest and only girl among four brothers, her mom working long hours to support them. She loved writing and cherished her little transistor radio for all the latest musical hits it provided when she was alone in her bedroom.

"Your hands are cold," Steve said, taking Karen’s left hand and tucking it into his coat pocket with his own. She felt warmth spread through her, not just from the physical contact but also from Steve's kindness and happiness.

They returned to the Mustang parked along Main Street. A few snowflakes dusted the windshield, and icy puffs of wind coughed over them. The car provided much-needed warmth.

The days that followed were filled with shared moments, laughter, and growing affection. Karen met Steve’s large family, who welcomed her warmly, and he joined her family for several dinners, fitting in seamlessly.

Two days before Steve returned to the Air Force base, they sat in his Mustang at the Dog ‘n Suds, waiting for their chili dogs and root beers. Steve reached into his coat pocket and pulled out a small jewelry box. "I got you something."

"Oh, I haven’t had time to get you anything!" Her heart quivered as she saw the box, surprise and embarrassment mingling through her. "You didn’t have to…"

Steve beamed, opening the lid to reveal a tiny gold ring shaped with the infinity symbol with a sparkling diamond chip in the center. "It’s a promise ring. Promise me you’ll wait for me. You said you like writing. Maybe we can write letters back and forth while I’m gone. You’ll be a senior next year. Maybe after graduation, we can see what happens next?"

Surprise hitched in her voice as the diamond winked at her in the dashboard lights. "I’ll wait for you, Steve. I promise."

A warm kiss sealed their Christmas moment, promising a future filled with love and hope.


THE END

Author's Note: I dedicate my story to all of my sweet, silly, and wonderful girlfriends during our Junior year in high school. We had such a blast and I'll never forget all of you! With love & Merry Christmas! 


 

Tuesday, December 2, 2025

HEALNG HEARTS: All I Want For Christmas Is Peace

 

Jesus assures us in John 14:27, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”


Those words have taken on a deeper meaning for me this year. 2025 has held more heartache than I ever imagined. It began the day I was told my precious daughter, Stephanie, had died in a car accident on February 1. There are no words for that kind of devastation. There were days I didn’t know how to breathe, let alone how to keep moving. But through every trembling step, Jesus walked beside me. His presence steadied me when nothing else could.

Ten months have passed since those heartbreaking words, “Stephanie died last night,” first echoed in my ears. In these months of grief, sorrow, and searching, my one prayer has been simple: Lord, please give me peace. Not the world’s kind—fleeting, shallow, temporary—but His peace… the kind that anchors the soul.

And today, with a grateful heart, I can say He answered. Not all at once, but like honey dripping over a buttermilk biscuit. It filled the empty places in my heart with hope, comfort, and the steady whisper that healing is happening one day at a time.

Those we love who were saved and have gone on before us—they’re home. Safe. Whole. No longer part of this broken world. And somehow, that truth brings peace that holds me together and lifts my eyes toward eternity.

My prayer has been answered. Praise God for His unfailing love.

From My Heart to Yours

If this season finds you carrying a quiet ache, a longing, or a prayer you’ve whispered over and over, I want you to know you’re not alone. The same God who met me in the deepest valley will meet you in yours. His peace is strong enough to steady you, gentle enough to soothe you, and faithful enough to carry you through the holidays and beyond. I’m praying His sweet, healing peace washes over you today.

Prayer

O Lord, thank You for walking this life journey with us. Thank You for hearing our cries, our questions, and our whispered prayers. In this holy Advent season, prepare our hearts to welcome Christ our Lord—the King of Kings and the giver of perfect peace. Amen.


Saturday, November 15, 2025

HEALING HEARTS: Blessed Assurance



 "I have told you these things, so that in Me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble,, but take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33. 

Everyone faces troubles and problems in our lives - sometimes by our poor choices/decisions, sometimes because someone else caused them, or sometimes just because we live in a sinful world and things are going to happen to us. 

When the problems come, immediately turn to Christ Jesus - He is the one who holds us in His arms and helps us handle whatever comes our way. 

Learn to take one day at a time, praise the Lord each and every day, and do not allow those negative thoughts and problems to overcome you. We have blessed assurance through the promises of God to help us. 

"Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walks in the light of Your presence, O Lord." Psalm 89:15. 

Tuesday, November 11, 2025

HEALING HEARTS: Strength For This Day and Season

 


Strength for This Day and Season

Autumn has arrived with its familiar beauty. It has always been my favorite time of year. From September through December, the world seems touched by a special kind of wonder.

But this year feels different. My heart is heavy, and my spirit is low. Stephanie isn't here anymore. It’s been nine months since those words shattered my world: “Stephanie died last night.” In the wake of that loss came wave after wave of heartbreak and hardship. And yet—looking back—I see something remarkable. I made it through each one. Every time I faced what I didn’t think I could, somehow, I did. Each day brought just enough strength to continue.

That strength wasn’t mine. It was God’s.

In Deuteronomy 33:25, we are reminded that “As your days, so shall your strength be.” God promises us the exact measure of strength we need for each day—not for tomorrow, not for next week—but for today. His provision always matches our need.

As I reflect on all I’ve endured, I realize He has never failed to give me what I needed to survive the day. My strength and energy come from my Creator, not from my own doing. Exercise, rest, and eating might help our bodies, but only God’s Spirit sustains us.

So, when my emotions overwhelm me and the holidays stir deep sadness, I will trust that Jesus walks beside me—and, when I cannot walk, He carries me. I will get through this season. I will be okay, because God’s promise still holds true.

We all struggle with something, for we live in a sinful world and daily struggles can mess with us! It doesn't have to be grief and loss, the things humans deal with are real and no one has a perfect life. God knows that and God supplies our needs. 

In this season of thanksgiving, may we all pause to see how God, our Creator, equips us daily—with grace, strength, and mercy to face whatever comes. Let us open our eyes to His presence and our hearts to His divine help, giving thanks for His unending care.

Prayer:
Lord, thank You for giving us strength for this day—no more, no less—just enough to make it through. Help us trust Your promise, especially when our hearts are broken. Amen.



Friday, October 10, 2025

FAMILY HISTORY: Celebrating Family History Month!

  1. “Faith, family, and memories — treasures that time can never erase.”


 Remembering the Days of Old: Celebrating Family History Month

Have you ever found yourself smiling at an old photograph or lingering over a story told by an elder? There’s something sacred about remembering where we came from—those people and moments that shaped who we are today.

October is Family History Month, a time to pause and honor the stories that have been woven into the fabric of our families. Scripture reminds us again and again to cherish the generations who came before us and to pass on their wisdom and faith.

“Remember the days of old, consider the generations long past; ask your father, and he will tell you, your elders, and they will explain to you.” — Deuteronomy 32:7

God calls us to remember. To listen. To ask our elders to share what they know. In doing so, we keep alive the lessons and faith that have sustained our families through the years.

I think back to family gatherings long ago—Sunday dinners, holiday celebrations, laughter echoing through the house. Those moments live in my memory, reminders of love, connection, and the faithfulness of God across time.

Psalm 78:2–8 tells us to teach our children about God’s works so that they, too, may place their trust in Him. Along with sharing the stories of Scripture, we can pass down our own family stories—stories of perseverance, answered prayers, and God’s hand guiding us through every season.

“A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children.” — Proverbs 13:22

That inheritance isn’t just material—it’s spiritual. It’s the faith, love, and character we build and pass along. Each time we share a family story, we’re leaving behind a piece of that legacy.

And Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) reminds us, “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old, they will not turn from it.” When we help our children understand where they came from—and who (God) has carried us all the way—they grow roots that keep them steady when life changes.

So this month, take time to explore your family’s history. Look through old photographs. Write down your memories. Ask your parents, grandparents, or older relatives to share stories before they’re lost to time. You may be surprised how deeply those stories speak of God’s faithfulness.

Thought to Ponder:
Family stories are sacred threads connecting our hearts to the generations that came before—and to the God who has been faithful through them all.

A Prayer for Family History Month:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the generations before us who paved the way with love, sacrifice, and faith. Thank You for the stories that remind us of Your steadfast goodness through the years. Help us to treasure our family memories and to pass them on with care. May we honor You as we preserve the legacy of faith You’ve written into our families. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Happy Family History Month! May your heart be full as you remember, record, and rejoice in the story God has written through your family.

Thursday, October 9, 2025

HEALING HEARTS ~ When God Says “It’s Going to Be Okay”

 God doesn’t always still the storm — sometimes He stills His child within it.


When God Says “It’s Going to Be Okay”

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.”
Isaiah 26:3 (NIV)

My “Okay” Story

Sometimes God doesn’t calm the storm right away. Instead, He calms us in the middle of it. One small whisper from Him can quiet our panic and bring peace to the heart that’s spinning with fear.

Several years ago, I received a phone call that turned my world upside down. My husband’s voice was shaky as he told me that something had happened and someone was in terrible trouble — the kind that breaks a person’s heart. And we had to address the issue and help.

As tears blurred my vision, I hurried to lock up my desk at work, feeling fear rising like a flood inside me. When I turned the key in the cabinet, I heard it — a voice, soft but certain:

“Karen, it’s going to be okay.”

I knew that voice. It wasn’t from within me — it was from the Lord Himself. Not loud or dramatic, but steady and filled with peace.

Those words carried me through the long months ahead — the legalities, the travel, the worry, and the waiting. It took a long while, but in the end, everything turned out okay. Just like He said it would.

Since that day, I’ve gathered what I like to call my “okay” stories — those times when life got messy and hard, but God whispered peace into my chaos. Each one reminds me that no matter how bad things look, He is always in control. He’s working for my good, even when I can’t see it.

Friend, maybe you’ve got an “okay” story too — or maybe you’re in the middle of one right now. Either way, remember this: if God is in it, it’s going to be okay.

 Scriptures to Hold Close

  • Romans 8:28 (NLT) — And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them.
  • John 14:27 (NIV) — Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
  • Psalm 46:1 (KJV) — God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

From My Heart to Yours

When I look back, I realize that God didn’t just make things “okay” — He made me okay. His peace has a way of getting deep inside and changing how we see the storm around us. Maybe that’s why He whispers instead of shouts. He wants us close enough to hear Him.

If you’re facing something hard today, take a deep breath and listen. He’s still saying it — It’s going to be okay. Talk to God and tell him what's on your mind. 

A Prayer

Father,
Thank You for being my peace in every storm. When fear rises and life feels out of control, help me to remember Your gentle voice reminding me that it’s going to be okay. Teach me to trust You when I can’t see the way ahead, and to share my “okay” stories so that others can find hope in You.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.


Friday, September 26, 2025

HEALING HEARTS: Do You Believe in God? Testimony Time!

 


I believe in

 God

 

And I am

 

Thankful,

Grateful,

&

Blessed!

God has saved me from the dark pit; He lifted me up and 

brought me to the light. I will never stop praising 

His Name! God gives me what I need...I want for 

literally nothing! I am a widow living alone and

God leads me, answers my prayers, and takes 

care of me! What more can I want? 

Absolutely nothing! 

I hope you, too, believe that God creates all humans and 

we are made to love Him first, then love others. 

Family does not come first; God does. 

Amen & Hallelujah! 

"--and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." --Philippians 2:11


Friday, September 19, 2025

HEALING HEARTS: She Is You & Me

God is teaching me and leading me and my life is changing day by day. I give all the praise to my Heavenly Father, for He is faithful! 

She Is You and Me

Seeing others through the eyes of Jesus

More Alike Than We Think

At first glance, the world sees only disheveled looks and poverty. She has been overlooked, judged, and left outside the circle of acceptance.

But she is you and me.

She laughs, she cries, she gets angry, she hopes. She loves her family, even when relationships are complicated. She carries dreams and disappointments, just like we do. She has known heartache and loss, yet she still shows caring and tenderness where she can.

The Hidden Heartache

Her life has been marked with pain and unmet expectations. She may feel empty inside, believing her dreams will never come true. Perhaps she thinks she is ugly or forgotten in a world that prizes beauty, wealth, and power.

But haven’t we all felt that way at some point? Haven’t we each carried wounds that make us feel small, invisible, or unworthy?

She is you and me.

God’s Call to Love

When I first met her, I sensed God’s nudge: Be her encourager. See her as I see her. Not with judgment, but with compassion.

Through the eyes of Jesus, I saw more than her outward appearance. I saw a soul hungry for love, acceptance, and kindness. With gentle words of encouragement, I’ve been able to offer her hope. She responded, not because of who I am, but because of Christ’s love shining through.

“Those who give to the poor will lack nothing,
but those who close their eyes to them receive many curses.”
Proverbs 28:27, NIV

Learning to See Differently

God brought me here to show me a different way of life. I could focus on the hardships and frustrations, but He has been teaching me something greater: to love others without conditions.

We all have flaws. We all have stories of pain, broken relationships, and disappointments. None of us are perfect—nor will we ever be on this side of heaven. But in God’s eyes, we are equal. All deeply loved. All worth redeeming.

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”
Romans 3:23, NIV

“Yet to all who did receive Him, to those who believed in His name,
He gave the right to become children of God.”
John 1:12, NIV

Thought for Today

When you see someone who looks different, lives differently, or struggles in ways you may not understand, remember: she is you and me. We are more alike than we are different. God calls us to see people through His eyes and love them as He loves us.

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for reminding me that in Your eyes, we are all equal. Forgive me when I am quick to judge instead of quick to love. Help me see others with the compassion of Christ and give me words that build up instead of tear down. Lord, let my heart reflect Your kindness so that others may feel valued and encouraged through me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 

Monday, September 15, 2025

HEALING HEARTS: When God Gives You What You Need (Even If You Don't Like It)




 When God Gives You What You Need (Even If You Don’t Like It)

“And my God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19

Call me vain, but I have never liked white vehicles. They show every bit of dirt and every bug splatter, and to me, they just look awful. So when I bought a white Dodge Journey seven years ago, I was not happy at all.

You might be wondering, “Then why did you buy it?” Here’s the story.

The Car I Didn’t Want

I had taken my maroon Jeep in for new tires and an oil change. It was late in the afternoon, and I was tired. That’s when a salesman started pressuring me to trade in my Jeep for a brand-new Dodge Journey. I told him no—several times. After all, I had just paid for four brand-new tires. And, it was the last car that my husband and I bought together for me to drive, so it was sentimental to me.

But he was persistent, and before I fully realized what was happening, I had signed the papers and drove away in a shiny, new… white Dodge Journey. I hated it.

I was angry at myself for letting him pressure me into something I didn’t want, and I was frustrated about the wasted money on those new tires. I felt like I’d been taken advantage of. But the deal was done.

God’s Surprising Provision

Fast forward seven years, and here’s the truth: that “ugly” white Journey has been one of the most dependable vehicles I’ve ever owned. Not a single breakdown.

More than that, God used it to meet needs I didn’t even know were coming. In those years, I’ve had to move three different times. And aside from the big pieces of furniture, I was able to move the majority of my belongings in that roomy SUV. Looking back, I realize that God knew I needed this vehicle—even if I didn’t.

I can’t help but think there may have been something wrong with my Jeep that I never discovered. But one thing is sure: God knew what I needed. As a widow living on one income, He provided a dependable car that has carried me through many seasons. And, hey, it's a Dodge vehicle, and my husband was a Dodge man all the way! 

Choosing Gratitude

Today, I’m thankful for the very vehicle I once resented. That “ugly” white Journey in my driveway reminds me daily that God’s provision isn’t always what we expect, but it is always what we need.

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” — Proverbs 19:21

Is there something in your life you’ve resisted or disliked, only to later realize it was part of God’s purpose? Trust Him—He sees what we cannot, and He provides what we truly need.

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You that even when I don’t understand, You know what I need. Teach me to trust Your provision and to be content in Your purpose for my life. Amen.

Saturday, September 13, 2025

HEALING HEARTS: How Far I've Come

 

How Far I’ve Come

“And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19

Walking Through the Valley

It has been seven months and eleven days since my daughter’s life was tragically taken in a car accident. In the days that followed, grief felt overwhelming, and I often wondered how I could go on. But in my darkest moments, I prayed—and God met me there.

Strength for Each Day

Day by day, He gave me strength. I held to the simple rhythm of reading a devotional each morning and lifting my heart to Him in prayer. Each time the shadows of despair crept in, I chose to look up, fixing my eyes on my Creator, the God of heaven.

Holding on to Hope

It is still hard when I think about my daughter and my late husband. There are moments when I wish life could be different. Yet, I cling to the promise that one day I will see them again. They are waiting for me, and until that day, I know God still has a plan and a purpose for my life.

“For everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven.” — Ecclesiastes 3:1

That truth gives me hope. I may not know what tomorrow holds, but I know Who holds tomorrow. And that is enough. Hallelujah!

Proclaiming His Goodness

We are here on earth to proclaim the goodness of God. As Psalm 34:3 reminds us: “Come, let us tell of the Lord’s greatness; let us exalt His name together.”

Friend, have you experienced God's goodness in your own life? Take a moment to reflect—and then share it with other people. Tell them how God has worked in your life. When we tell others what God has brought us through, His peace and security become even more real in our hearts.

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for walking with me through the darkest valleys and giving me strength when I felt weak. Help me to remember that You have a plan for my life and that You are always near. Teach me to proclaim Your goodness so others may see Your love at work. In Jesus’ name, Amen.